Anne Wilson Schaef

“We are all in recovery from the addictive system. We are all codependents.”

“Perfectionism is a refusal to let yourself move ahead.”

“Grief is a process, not a state.”

“I believe that we are all recovering from something.”

“Lying is a way of life in the addictive system.”

“We must learn to trust our own process.”

“The system teaches us that our feelings are not to be trusted.”

“The System is a lie. It is an illusion. We have been living a lie.”

“Our culture is obsessed with control.”

“Healing begins where the wound was made.”

“Good health is not something we can buy. However, it can be an extremely valuable savings account.”

“Asking for help does not mean that we are weak or incompetent. It usually indicates an advanced level of honesty and intelligence.”

“To be fully alive, we must be willing to feel.”

“The process of recovering from the addictive system is a process of reclaiming our own reality.”

“Honesty is the cornerstone of recovery.”

“Codependence is a disease of the lost self.”

“The journey of recovery is a journey of self-discovery.”